uberreiniger: (glass moon (skellorg))
It has come to pass. A little after 5 pm on November 3rd [livejournal.com profile] oreibasia and I became husband and wife. Photos to follow, but you can see a pic of us in our wedding outfits at [livejournal.com profile] kansaschica's lj.

The wedding day went surprisingly well with very few problems and despite the fact that we had close to a dozen people up and tell us they weren't coming on the day before the wedding (including one of my groomsmen!) it still managed to be a beautiful ceremony. The park was awash in beautiful Fall colors, the greek columns and arch which Lesley rented for us turned out to be amazing, and [livejournal.com profile] duendegrrl and her friend Etoile put on an amazing pre-ceremony bellydance that started everything off just right.

After the reception the party moved back to Lesley's where many of the guests partook in a game of Apples to Apples. Meanwhile, Mel and I made ourselves comfy by the bonfire in the backyard and enjoyed some tasty drinks. By the time we got home around one a.m. we were seriously exhausted and wound up sleeping for about twelve hours straight. When we finally got up today we got the car unloaded and spent the afternoon with my hometown friends Eddy and Angela before swinging back to our place by way of Target where we finally used one of the giftcards we received to purchase a second computer chair. No more fighting over whose turn it is to be on the computer!

The wedding weekend was a good one by and large, even if we didn't have [livejournal.com profile] megiloth there. Him and his damn AIDS flare-ups :) I'm looking forward now to being able to say "my wife" instead of "my fiance." I'm looking forward to a lot of things. Namely a lifetime.
uberreiniger: (not slept (skellorg))
I have not stopped being tired. It's amazing how much this job takes out of me. But at least I'm getting much needed exercise.

Today Mel and I got a ton of stuff done. Started setting things up with the caterer, picked up our wedding rings (which fit perfectly,) and got registered for our wedding license. We were both thinking the license was going to be a bureaucratic nightmare of some kind but it's the easiest thing I think I've ever done at a courthouse. Just showed up, forked over the fee, entered our names, and that was that. We joked that it almost seemed too easy. Anyway, after a stop to purchase some gaming merchandise from [livejournal.com profile] arphaxaad we made a stop at the nearby Michael's craft store and a few other places. It pretty much feels like all I've done is drive today, but it's also a great sense of accomplishment.

In all the driving we talked a great deal about plans for our future. You see, while I'm grateful for my job I'm not really happy doing it at all and if I don't set some sort of agenda now then I will be doing this kind of thing for the rest of my life. I'll spare you the details, but we've both got some pretty good ideas about where we'd like to go and what we'd like to be doing a few years down the line. It's given me hope and lifted this funk I've been in somewhat. You see, I've never really planned anything and it's 101% of the reason why I ended up where I am. But having someone else to plan with, I dunno... it makes everything seem so much more possible, you know? I've never had that before with another person and it's amazing.

I'll shut up. It's just an amazing feeling after thirty years to finally feel like I know where I might actually be going. The only regret I have about today is that our running around kept us out so late that heading over to [livejournal.com profile] megiloth's for poker night wasn't really feasible. I'm sure that even now he plots against me in revenge. Afterward he will say that he couldn't kill Nicole* because he loved her and that the glove did not fit. I'll still invite him to the wedding though.

*By Nicole I mean Nicole Brown Simpson, not [livejournal.com profile] kansaschica. He'd know better than to try and kill her. [livejournal.com profile] megiloth, that is. He would know better than to try and kill her. OJ, on the other hand, he would kill anyone.
uberreiniger: (Gom Jabar (mercstales))
I guess yesterday was national Coming Out Day.

I like girls.

There. Glad I had the courage to express that. Hopefully it will encourage someone else not to live their life in fear or something.

I felt sick yesterday and the first part of today. My stomach was not happy. It's better now, though. Havign three days off makes it very hard to want to go back to work.

I am not going to be able to keep my Sunday evenings off. Retail + holiday season = new guy = asst. manager whose job it is to be available = I don't get much say in these things. Hopefully I won't be stuck having to close every single Sunday night and can still stay involved in my Sunday RPG. It just depresses me. But I can't afford to jeopardize my job.

My wedding is like, three weeks away. It doesn't quite seem real. A lot of things seem very unreal right now. I guess that's what life being "in transition" really means. It's one thing to say you're in transition, another thing to really feel it.

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