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Have the lambs stopped screaming?
Nov. 15th, 2002 05:29 amI need to get home to my own computer so I can upload pictures and quizzes and all those other widgets which seem so popular here. I don't like doing things on work's computer lest I inadvertantly leave some incriminating evidence.
So here I was, having a great day. Got some issues resolved with the girl I'm seeing (For those who don't know, which is all, I'm trying to start dating again after a heartbreak involving my best friend whom I love,) and started feeling better about our relationship, or lack thereof since neither of us are really healed enough from recent experiences to start really dating. And we talked and all was well. Then tonight I find out one of my closest friends of nearly ten years might be losing his marriage soon. In the past couple of years I've gotten to know his wife and love her like a sister. For everything that's wrong with their relationship, seeing them together and hearing them speak of one another reminds me of everything that's right about love. Since I'm so close to both of them, I don't know what to do or say because no matter what I do, I'll wind up taking a side; it always happens and it's a lose-lose situation. But I want to help. Yeah, I know, ya can't help. But sooner or later, I'll wind up getting details from both parties. Better to figure out how to handle that now before I get there.
So here I was, having a great day. Got some issues resolved with the girl I'm seeing (For those who don't know, which is all, I'm trying to start dating again after a heartbreak involving my best friend whom I love,) and started feeling better about our relationship, or lack thereof since neither of us are really healed enough from recent experiences to start really dating. And we talked and all was well. Then tonight I find out one of my closest friends of nearly ten years might be losing his marriage soon. In the past couple of years I've gotten to know his wife and love her like a sister. For everything that's wrong with their relationship, seeing them together and hearing them speak of one another reminds me of everything that's right about love. Since I'm so close to both of them, I don't know what to do or say because no matter what I do, I'll wind up taking a side; it always happens and it's a lose-lose situation. But I want to help. Yeah, I know, ya can't help. But sooner or later, I'll wind up getting details from both parties. Better to figure out how to handle that now before I get there.
